What “Talking Animals” Can Teach Us About Healing, Consent, and Connection

Bastian, one of the dogs in the Augmented Interspecies Communication (AIC) community, known for his joyful and persistent “boat, boat, boat” requests.

Over the last few years, most people have come across “talking animals” on TikTok or Instagram. Short clips show pets pressing buttons that say “outside,” “ball,” or “love you.” They’re funny, endearing, and a little bit mind-bending. It’s easy to see why they go viral. At first glance, it seems like a clever internet trend, but behind the novelty lies something far more profound.

Behind the viral clips lies one of the most quietly revolutionary research movements of our time: Augmented Interspecies Communication (AIC). It’s not a gimmick and it’s not a fad. It’s a collaboration between scientists, animal guardians, and a growing community of observers who are asking one profound question: What happens when we start listening to animals as if they mean what they say?

As a trauma therapist, that question caught my attention for an entirely different reason. The more I learned about these “talking animals” (called Learners), the more I realized the work they represent is also the work of healing: learning to notice, to slow down, and to listen to what’s been trying to speak all along.

What Is Augmented Interspecies Communication (AIC)?

AIC grew from a simple act of curiosity.

In 2019, Christina Hunger, a speech-language pathologist, wondered whether the augmentative and alternative communication (AAC) devices she used with her non-verbal human clients could also help her dog, Stella, express herself. She ordered a set of recordable buttons from Amazon, recorded words like outside and play, and began teaching Stella to use them.

What began as a home experiment soon drew global attention. Stella learned to combine words meaningfully, “want play outside”, and Hunger’s videos inspired thousands of guardians to try similar setups. You can read about their journey in Christina’s book, How Stella Learned To Talk.

Out of that grassroots wave came a need for scientific structure. Researchers at UC San Diego’s Comparative Cognition Lab partnered with the company FluentPet to investigate what was really happening. Thus, AIC, Augmented Interspecies Communication, was born, intentionally named to distinguish it from human AAC while honoring its scientific roots.

The lab’s current studies focus on cognition, pattern learning, and context comprehension. The goal isn’t to prove that dogs “speak English,” but to understand how animals form associations, concepts, and possibly even shared meaning. Skepticism is welcome, healthy, even, but so is wonder.

When you watch an animal press “play” after hearing “later,” or choose “mad” after being denied a request, it starts to feel less like chance and more like communication.

It’s also important to clarify what AIC is not. It isn’t a substitute for body language. Animals already use energy, movement, and tone as complex communication systems. The buttons simply extend that system, creating a bridge between nonverbal cues and symbolic reference.

Different species and individuals use the system differently. Some press buttons sparingly; others “spam” them with tenacity. Some focus on tangible needs like food, outside, treats, while others appear to link words in ways that suggest emotion or memory. Diversity is part of the beauty. Just like humans, each animal’s communication style reflects personality, temperament, and lived experience.

And that individuality, the way Bastian insists on “boat, boat, boat!” or how a small guinea pig named Millie once declined touch with a polite “no,” is what makes this work so moving. It’s not about tricks, it’s about relationship.

Why a Therapist Is Paying Attention

When I first came across the AIC community, I wasn’t looking for anything in particular. I was scrolling through social media to unwind after a long day. What drew me in wasn’t only the videos themselves but the patterns of connection behind them, the same ones I see every day in trauma therapy.

In my work, many clients describe their pets as their “safe place.” Long before trust feels possible with another person, it often exists with a dog curled against their leg or a cat resting on their chest. Animals offer what the nervous system craves most: consistent presence without demand. Their steady breathing, soft purring, and loving gaze provide coregulation, a biological synchrony that helps our bodies remember what safety feels like.

Watching animals use AIC deepened that understanding. These animal guardians were slowing down, attuning, and respecting boundaries in real time. They weren’t commanding, they were listening. They were modeling exactly what I teach in therapy: curiosity over control.

When a dog presses “no,” the guardian must pause. When a cat chooses “later,” the human learns patience. Those micro-moments are the essence of trauma recovery, the practice of honoring choice and consent, even when it disrupts convenience.

As I met guardians and animals in person, including Bastian with his playful enthusiasm, Twiggy the thoughtful dog exploring grief, Parker who invents her own words like “squeaker car” for ambulance, and Al who requests massages when something hurts, I saw the parallels everywhere. Each interaction was a mirror for human healing. We’re all learning to communicate our needs, to trust that our “no” will be heard, and to believe our “yes” will be welcomed.

What the Animals Are Teaching Us

Parker, featured in the Netflix series Inside the Mind of a Dog, explores FluentPet button boards with curiosity and creativity, reminding us that learning and healing often begin with play.

Every guardian in the AIC community could tell you that once you start truly listening, you’ll never see animals or communication the same way again. Each of them becomes a small teacher of presence.

Millie, a spunky guinea pig now gone, modeled what it means to have boundaries that are both kind and firm.
When she pressed no after being offered touch, her guardian respected it. That moment, simple as it was, carried the essence of consent, an interaction free of punishment or persuasion. In therapy, this mirrors the first steps of recovery from trauma: learning that no is safe, and that connection can survive it.

Bastian, an exuberant and confident terrier, reminds us what it looks like to live as a joyful “yes.”
When he calls out boat boat boat he’s not performing; he’s embodying the unfiltered self-expression that becomes possible only in safety. His guardian Joelle delights in that authenticity, reinforcing that enthusiasm is not “too much.” Bastian was recently named People magazine’s World’s Cutest Rescue Dog, so obviously something is working!

For clients healing from perfectionism or hypervigilance, that lesson matters. Freedom and play are not luxuries; they are signs of a regulated nervous system.

Russell the cat, once rescued from a hoarding situation, now presses his buttons with quiet confidence. “Laundry” and “litter” are among his favorites, little cues to his guardian Hannah that it might be time to tidy up. His story reminds us that trauma doesn’t erase the capacity for communication; it simply teaches the body to protect it. Every time Russell initiates a press, he is doing the same thing trauma survivors do in therapy, risking connection after experiences that made it unsafe.

Twiggy teaches grief. After losing a companion, she learned the word dead through modeling, then pressing it softly, almost reverently, when noticing a fallen bird. Twiggy’s guardian, Janine, didn’t rush to correct or distract; she patiently modeled and mirrored acknowledgement. In therapy, that’s the work of mourning: naming what is gone so that life can integrate around it.

And then there was Billi, often called “Her Madjesty” because she liked to say mad. She didn’t hold back her feelings; she let everyone know exactly how she felt. For humans, anger is often the emotion that reveals where self-respect begins. Billi’s honesty shows that clarity is not cruelty, it’s communication.

Together, these animals remind us that healing starts when we find our voice again. Whether that voice is a button press, a small gesture, or a shaky sentence in therapy, it is all the same effort to turn what we feel inside into connection.

The Science of Safety and Co-Regulation

In loving memory of Kiley, whose use of FluentPet buttons helped deepen the understanding of interspecies communication and the bonds that shape healing.

From a neurobiological perspective, every successful AIC interaction is a demonstration of the polyvagal theory in motion. When an animal’s cues are met with calm acknowledgment rather than control, both nervous systems shift toward regulation. Heart rates slow. Breathing synchronizes. The body recognizes, I am safe to connect.

Humans and animals share this ancient circuitry. Our vagus nerve, the body’s social engagement system, responds to tone, eye contact, proximity, and predictability. A softly spoken “good job” or a pause after a “no” tells the nervous system the same thing across species: You have choice here.

In trauma therapy, that is the work. Clients learn to notice internal cues instead of overriding them. They practice the same thing I see guardians learning with their animals, meeting behavior with curiosity instead of correction. It’s why pets so often become co-regulators in sessions or at home. Their steady presence offers a sensory reminder that connection can be safe and that rest does not require vigilance.

Scientific studies increasingly support this. Research on human-animal interaction shows decreases in cortisol, increases in oxytocin, and improved heart-rate variability when people engage gently with pets. These are the same physiological markers we aim to restore through trauma-informed care.

What AIC adds is language, a tangible way to witness that co-regulation happening in both directions. When an animal initiates conversation, the human’s body naturally slows down to listen—the rhythm changes. Both become students of timing, tone, and trust.

Beyond Words — Consciousness, Connection, and Care

Every meaningful relationship, whether between humans or across species, rests on a single truth: we are all trying to be understood. AIC doesn’t prove that dogs speak English. It proves that consciousness is broader, relational, and longing to meet itself.

When we pause to listen to an animal press no or love you or help, we are witnessing awareness in another form. And something happens in the human body when we acknowledge that awareness: our defenses soften.
The separation between “us” and “them,” “teacher” and “student,” begins to dissolve.

That shift, from hierarchy to dialogue, is what healing feels like. It’s also what makes the AIC movement sacred in its ordinariness. A guardian sitting on the floor beside a button board, waiting for a small paw to press a word, is practicing the same presence we cultivate in therapy sessions.

Patience. Curiosity. Consent.

Ducat, a loyal kitty companion (who loves to skateboard!), reminds us how quiet presence and steady affection can be a form of communication all their own.

It’s a posture of listening that honors the intelligence already within the other, whether that other is a dog, a partner, a child, or an unhealed part of ourselves.

Curiosity Over Control

Healing, personal or collective, never begins with mastery. It begins with wonder.

The AIC community models this beautifully. They aren’t proving a theory; they’re asking one. They’re allowing data, emotion, and intuition to coexist. That’s what real science and real healing share: humility.
The courage to say, I don’t know yet, but I’m listening.

For those recovering from trauma, that same curiosity is transformational. It replaces the need to manage or predict with the capacity to observe. It teaches that safety isn’t built through control, it’s built through relationship.

Animals already know this. They live by energetic truth. They don’t overanalyze tone or intent; they sense coherence. That’s why so many clients find comfort in their pets: animals respond to the state beneath the words, not the performance of them. When we regulate, they relax. When we rush, they retreat. When we drop into calm presence, they draw near. It’s the most honest feedback system in the world.

Listening as an Act of Love

In therapy, we often say that listening is more than hearing. It’s allowing space for what we can’t yet translate: the tremor, the sigh, the long pause before truth. The same applies to AIC. Buttons may give us syntax, but the real communication is the energy between presses: the gaze, the breath, the waiting.

That’s where empathy lives; in the space between signal and response.

Every time a guardian respects an animal’s “no,” they are participating in a quiet revolution. They are proving that love can coexist with boundaries. Every time they celebrate a “yes,” they are affirming that joy is communication too. And every time we choose to listen without forcing meaning, we are practicing the deepest form of therapy there is: presence.

Why This Matters

Our world is noisy with opinion and speed. The AIC movement reminds us that wisdom still comes in whispers.
It asks us to slow down enough to notice the subtle, to regard the nonverbal as meaningful, and to understand that connection isn’t a human invention, it’s a shared biological language.

In trauma recovery, that understanding changes everything. When we realize that safety can be sensed, that consent can be taught, and that healing can happen across species, we begin to trust that empathy is evolutionary, not optional. We start to see communication not as dominance, but as dialogue.

That perspective redefines how we approach therapy, parenting, relationships, and even our inner world.
Because once you’ve seen a guinea pig press no or a cat voice mad, it becomes much harder to justify ignoring the quieter signals within ourselves.

A Therapist’s Reflection

Stephanie and AL share a moment at Hot Doggie Summer camp in 2024. AL often uses his FluentPet buttons to ask for massages and reminds us that healing begins with asking for what we need.

When I began following AIC research, I didn’t expect it to change my work. But it has; profoundly. It’s expanded how I think about voice, consent, and autonomy. It’s deepened my respect for the nervous system as a translator of truth. And it’s reminded me that healing isn’t just about teaching people “coping skills,” it’s about helping them remember how to communicate honestly, with themselves, with others, and with the world around them. You can watch more of my commentary on Instagram by searching through AIC in the Highlights.

So when I sit with a client who says, “I don’t know how to say no,” I think of Millie. When someone says, “I’ve forgotten how to play,” I think of Bastian. When someone is learning to trust again after trauma, I think of Russell. When grief enters the room, I remember Twiggy. When anger finally finds its name, I think of Billi, pressing mad again and again until she was understood. When someone worries about getting things wrong, I think of Parker, who explores every button with curiosity, unbothered by whether she is “correct.” She tries other pets’ boards, invents new combinations like heating device, eye device, and car walk, and reminds me that learning and creativity begin with permission to explore. And when someone struggles to ask for what they need, I think of Al, who requests a massage without apology when he’s sore, and of the many animals who use their buttons to ask for their medication when they don’t feel well. These animals have become unexpected co-teachers in what it means to be human.

A Gentle Invitation

Healing doesn’t always happen through words. Sometimes it begins through the quiet act of listening. Listening to the body, to the breath, to the beings who share our lives. You don’t need buttons to begin that practice. You only need curiosity, patience, and the willingness to believe that communication is everywhere.

If you’re learning to listen in new ways, to your body, to your relationships, or to the silent parts of your story, therapy can help you translate what’s been waiting to be heard.

Begin Listening to Yourself Again

If this conversation about animals, consent, and communication resonates with you, you may already sense that healing begins with listening. The same qualities that help us connect across species, curiosity, respect, and presence, are also what help us reconnect with ourselves.

In therapy, we explore how your body, emotions, and nervous system communicate what words sometimes cannot. Together, we slow down and notice the small signals that shape safety, trust, and connection. Whether you are living with anxiety, trauma, grief, or the feeling of being disconnected from yourself, learning to listen inward is the first step toward emotional healing.

As a trauma therapist in Florida, I specialize in PTSD, complex trauma, and emotional regulation. My approach combines neuroscience, somatic awareness, and compassionate guidance to help you understand what your body has been trying to tell you. I offer in-person trauma therapy in Shalimar, near Fort Walton Beach, as well as secure telehealth sessions throughout the state of Florida.

If you are ready to begin this process, you can schedule a free consultation or learn more about how therapy can help you rebuild safety, strengthen boundaries, and find clarity in your relationships and within yourself.

Healing begins when you start listening to your story, to your body, and to the quiet truth that has always been there.

About the Author

Stephanie A. Butler, LMHC-S, NCC, MCAP is a licensed trauma therapist and the founder of Clarity Counseling & Wellness in Shalimar, Florida. She specializes in PTSD, complex trauma, anxiety, perfectionism, and emotional regulation, offering both in-person sessions in Shalimar, near Fort Walton Beach area, and telehealth therapy throughout Florida.

Stephanie shares a joyful moment with Bastian on his beloved boat. Known for his enthusiastic “boat boat boat” button presses, Bastian reminds us that play and freedom are part of healing, too.

Stephanie’s work blends neuroscience, somatic awareness, and trauma-informed techniques with a deep respect for empathy, boundaries, and the nervous system’s capacity to heal.

Her clinical background includes advanced training in Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART) and EMDR, two evidence-based methods that help the brain and body release the imprint of trauma.

Known for bridging science and soul in a grounded, accessible way, Stephanie helps clients understand their emotional patterns and reclaim a sense of safety, authenticity, and connection. Her writing and teaching explore how healing happens through curiosity, consent, and communication, whether in therapy, relationships, or the quiet presence shared with the animals who remind us how to listen.

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