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Therapy & coaching for adults in Shalimar & Fort Walton Beach, Florida

You've spent so long holding everything together.

You deserve a life that feels like yours.

Anxiety, emotional exhaustion, and painful experiences can leave you feeling disconnected from yourself. Or maybe you’ve always felt a little different, and you’re tired of trying to keep up with a world that doesn’t seem built for you. Whether you need space to heal or support building what comes next, you’re in the right place.

If you’re carrying something heavy

Therapy is a place to work through anxiety, trauma, grief, and the patterns that keep repeating.

In person in Shalimar, near Fort Walton Beach, or online across Florida

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If everything seems to take more out of you

Coaching for highly sensitive and neurodivergent women who are ready to understand how they work, trust what they know, and build a life that actually fits.

Online anywhere, or in person in Shalimar near Fort Walton Beach

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Not sure which? That’s exactly what the free consultation is for.

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I’m Stephanie.

I've spent my career learning why people get stuck, and what actually helps.

When anxiety, depression, or painful experiences begin affecting your relationships, your confidence, or your ability to enjoy life, it can feel like you've lost touch with yourself. You may have tried to manage it on your own, but nothing seems to create the lasting relief you're looking for.

With 20 years of clinical experience and advanced training in trauma treatment, I bring more than traditional talk therapy to our work together. Using specialized, evidence-based approaches like EMDR and Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART), we'll explore what's contributing to your struggles and work toward meaningful change.

I believe you're more than a diagnosis. That's why my approach considers the whole person, including your experiences, relationships, spirituality, emotional well-being, and the patterns that may be keeping you stuck. Together, we'll develop a path forward that reflects your needs, your goals, and the life you want to reclaim.

I’m also a Board Certified Coach. In my coaching practice, I work with highly sensitive and neurodivergent women who’ve spent years adapting to a world that wasn’t built for how they work, and who are ready to stop overriding themselves and start trusting what they know. Coaching is a separate service, but twenty years of clinical experience shapes how deeply I understand what’s underneath. Learn more about coaching.

Sound familiar?

“I should...
be able to figure this out.” not be struggling this much.” be over this by now.”

“I should...
just be grateful for the life I have.” be able to figure this out.” not be struggling this much.” be over this by now.”


You’re someone who’s used to handling things, pushing through, and figuring it out. Which makes it even more discouraging when all the effort, insight, and strategies that should help don’t actually bring relief.

You’ve read the books, tried to reason your way through, maybe even gone to therapy. You keep showing up and doing the work, but you’re still struggling with the same feelings and patterns that leave you anxious, overwhelmed, or disconnected from yourself.

Find relief that actually changes how life feels.

Trauma therapist Stephanie Butler in her office in Shalimar 32579 near Fort Walton Beach, FL 32548 32549 after an ART session

How Therapy Can Help…

Effective healing without endless sessions.

Frequently Asked Questions

Whether you're considering therapy or coaching, it's natural to have questions. Here are answers to a few things you might want to know before getting started.

You don’t have to stay stuck.

Lying awake, replaying conversations and worries

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Sleeping more restfully and thinking less when you wake up at night

Holding things in to keep the peace

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Expressing yourself more confidently without over-explaining

Work stress bleeding into everything

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Being able to mentally leave work at work

Feeling emotionally drained and disconnected from things you used to enjoy

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Finding moments of enjoyment, connection, and interest in life again

Carrying emotional responsibility that isn’t yours

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Letting other people have their feelings without taking them on

to…

from…

Calmer responses to everyday stress and feeling more present

Feeling tense, scattered, or on edge throughout the day

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Trauma therapist specializing in anxiety, perfectionism, depression, PTSD in her office in Shalimar, FL 32579 near Fort Walton Beach, FL 32548

You don’t have to figure this out alone.

Finding the right therapist can feel overwhelming.

The best therapy happens when you feel safe, supported, and truly understood.

The right therapist sees the whole picture, recognizes how much you've already tried, and approaches your care as a collaboration, not another checklist. Healing isn't about treating yourself like a problem to solve.

I offer a free consultation as a low-pressure way to connect. It's a chance to ask questions, learn how I work, and see whether we might be a good fit.

And if we're not, I'll gladly help connect you with someone who may be better suited to your needs.

Highly sensitive or neurodivergent, and looking for coaching rather than therapy? Learn more about coaching.

Not ready for weekly therapy? Learn more about ART Intensives

Change is possible. 

And it can start right now.